Raising families with care, connection, and calm.
Guidance for parents. Support for children. Growth for families.
Because How We Raise our children shapes who they become.
At How We Raise™, We provide gentle, professional support for parents and children. Based in Madrid and available worldwide online, our work helps families find clarity, and connection.
Parenthood is beautiful— but isnt always easy.
Bedtime battles go on for hours?
Your child´s big emotions leave everyone exhausted?
Routines fall apart no matter how hard you try?
You long for more calm, confidence, and connection at home?
Do you get frustrated when your child doesn't want to do what you ask even after asking over and over? Like when it's meal time, bed time, getting ready or leaving the playground?
Or do you struggle with constantly snapping at your child and worrying that it's damaging your relationship?
I know how overwhelming it can feel.
When your child isn’t listening, when nothing seems to work no matter what you try — it’s exhausting. You might find yourself relying on threats, bribes, raised voices, punishments… or just giving in because you don’t know what else to do.
Maybe you’ve already read the books, listened to podcasts, joined workshops. And yet, when real life happens, it’s so easy to slip back into old patterns.
Here’s what I want you to hear: it isn’t your fault.
Parenthood doesn’t come with a manual. Most of us are left to figure it out as we go, piecing together advice from family, friends, or the internet. Much of it isn’t sustainable — or simply doesn’t work for your unique family. That doesn’t make you a bad parent, and it doesn’t mean you have a “difficult” child.
Everything can change.
✨ You can regain your confidence as a parent.
✨ You can learn how to support your child’s emotions with calm and clarity.
✨ You can communicate in ways that help your child listen, trust, and follow your lead.
✨ You can raise a child who is kind, resilient, and confident — not because they’re forced to behave, but because they truly want to.
It may feel far away right now, but repairing and rebuilding your relationship with your child is possible. With the right tools and guidance, your family can find its calm again.
And you don’t have to do it alone.
At How We Raise™, We have supported families through these same challenges — and I know change is possible for you too.
What we offer
At How We Raise, our work is built on three pillars:
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Clarity
Parenthood feels lighter when there is direction. We help families gain clarity around routines, expectations, and communication so daily life feels less overwhelming and more intentional.
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Calm
Children thrive when the home feels safe. We support parents in regulating thier own emotions, responding to children with calm guidance, and creating peaceful rhythms that reduce conflict.
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Connection
Strong bonds are the foundation of everything. We focus on strengthening parent—child relationships so that trust, cooperation, and emotional resilience grown naturally.
Parent Guidance Sessions
One-to-one coaching to help you feel confident, supported, and understood in your parenting journey.
(Available as single sessions or 4–6 week packages.)
Relocation Support
Making family transitions smooth and positive, Guiding parents moving to Madrid, support with school choices and building routines.
Our Packages
Child Development Support
Creative learning activities, therapeutic play, and emotional guidance tailored to your child’s needs.
(Flexible hourly sessions or custom weekly plans.)
Sleep Support ( Infant, Toddler)
Gentle, connection -based guidance to help children (infants to school-age) sleep more peacefully. No harsh methods - just practical routines, emotional reassurance, and calm nights for the whole family.
Family Experiences
Curated, intentional family days designed to bring calm, connection, and joy back into your home.
(Options include Calm Home Days, Adventure Days, and English Immersion Weekends.)
Screen Time Reset
Support for parents struggling with Ipads, phones, or gaming battles. Together we create realistic boundaries, healthy habits, and a calmer family rhythm without constant arguments.
How We Hero
Focused on building parental confidence, resilience and clarity. helping parents feel like the “Hero” in their own home, equipped with tools and strategies.
Our Programs
How We Connect
For parents and children, joint work to strengthen the parent—child relationship. Communication, trust, cooperation and daily rituals of connection,
How We Belong
Whole-family guidance around harmony, transitions, sibling dynamics, and creating sense of belonging at home.
How We Grow
For children, a direct support for kids to build confidence, emotional regulations, and independence.
About Charlotte
I´m Charlotte Ramis, Founder of How We Raise.
For over a decade, Ive supported families across the world — from Madrid to the USA and beyond. My background as a private educator and family consultant has shown me one truth: every child and every parent deserves to feel supported, understood, and capable.
I created How We Raise to give families the clarity, calm and connection they need to thrive — without judgment, with warmth, and with strategies that truly work.
Call to Action
You dont need to do this alone.
With the right guidance, changing is possible — for you, your child, and your family.